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Thursday, July 10, 2014


Top 100 Inspirational Quotes

Inspirational quotes and motivational quotes have the power to get us through a bad week, and can even  give us the courage to pursue our life’s dreams. So in the spirit of self motivation, here are 100 inspirational quotes.

1. Life isn’t about getting and having, it’s about giving and being. –Kevin Kruse

2. Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve. –Napoleon Hill


3. Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value. –Albert Einstein


4. Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.  –Robert Frost


5. I attribute my success to this: I never gave or took any excuse. –Florence Nightingale


6. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. –Wayne Gretzky


7. I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. –Michael Jordan


8. The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. –Amelia Earhart


9. Every strike brings me closer to the next home run. –Babe Ruth


10. Definiteness of purpose is the starting point of all achievement. –W. Clement Stone


11. We must balance conspicuous consumption with conscious capitalism. –Kevin Kruse


12. Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans. –John Lennon


13. We become what we think about. –Earl Nightingale


14.Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails.  Explore, Dream, Discover. –Mark Twain


15.Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. –Charles Swindoll


16. The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any. –Alice Walker


17. The mind is everything. What you think you become.  –Buddha


18. The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now. –Chinese Proverb


19. An unexamined life is not worth living. –Socrates


20. Eighty percent of success is showing up. –Woody Allen


21. Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. –Steve Jobs


22. Winning isn’t everything, but wanting to win is. –Vince Lombardi


23. I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions. –Stephen Covey


24. Every child is an artist.  The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up. –Pablo Picasso


25. You can never cross the ocean until you have the courage to lose sight of the shore. –Christopher Columbus


27. Either you run the day, or the day runs you. –Jim Rohn


28. Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right. –Henry Ford


29. The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why. –Mark Twain


30. Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it.  Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. –Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

31. The best revenge is massive success. –Frank Sinatra

32. People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing.  That’s why we recommend it daily. –Zig Ziglar


33. Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage. –Anais Nin


34. If you hear a voice within you say “you cannot paint,” then by all means paint and that voice will be silenced. –Vincent Van Gogh

35. There is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing. –Aristotle

36. Ask and it will be given to you; search, and you will find; knock and the door will be opened for you. –Jesus


37. The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be. –Ralph Waldo Emerson


38. Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.  Live the life you have imagined. –Henry David Thoreau


39. When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left and could say, I used everything you gave me. –Erma Bombeck


40. Few things can help an individual more than to place responsibility on him, and to let him know that you trust him.  –Booker T. Washington


41. Certain things catch your eye, but pursue only those that capture the heart. – Ancient Indian Proverb

42. Believe you can and you’re halfway there. –Theodore Roosevelt

43. Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear. –George Addair


44. We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light. –Plato


45. Teach thy tongue to say, “I do not know,” and thous shalt progress. –Maimonides


46. Start where you are. Use what you have.  Do what you can. –Arthur Ashe


47. When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life.  When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up.  I wrote down ‘happy’.  They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life. –John Lennon


48. Fall seven times and stand up eight. –Japanese Proverb


49. When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us. –Helen Keller


50. Everything has beauty, but not everyone can see. –Confucius


51. How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world. –Anne Frank


52. When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. –Lao Tzu


53. Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. –Maya Angelou


54. Happiness is not something readymade.  It comes from your own actions. –Dalai Lama


55. If you’re offered a seat on a rocket ship, don’t ask what seat! Just get on. –Sheryl Sandberg


56. First, have a definite, clear practical ideal; a goal, an objective. Second, have the necessary means to achieve your ends; wisdom, money, materials, and methods. Third, adjust all your means to that end. –Aristotle


57. If the wind will not serve, take to the oars. –Latin Proverb


58. You can’t fall if you don’t climb.  But there’s no joy in living your whole life on the ground. –Unknown


59. We must believe that we are gifted for something, and that this thing, at whatever cost, must be attained. –Marie Curie


60. Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears. –Les Brown


61. Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful. –Joshua J. Marine


62. If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else. –Booker T. Washington


63. I have been impressed with the urgency of doing. Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Being willing is not enough; we must do. –Leonardo da Vinci


64. Limitations live only in our minds.  But if we use our imaginations, our possibilities become limitless. –Jamie Paolinetti


65. You take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing, no one to blame. –Erica Jong


66. What’s money? A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do. –Bob Dylan


67. I didn’t fail the test. I just found 100 ways to do it wrong. –Benjamin Franklin


68. In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure. –Bill Cosby


69. A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new. – Albert Einstein


70. The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person who is doing it. –Chinese Proverb


71. There are no traffic jams along the extra mile. –Roger Staubach


72. It is never too late to be what you might have been. –George Eliot


73. You become what you believe. –Oprah Winfrey


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74. I would rather die of passion than of boredom. –Vincent van Gogh


75. A truly rich man is one whose children run into his arms when his hands are empty. –Unknown


76. It is not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves, that will make them successful human beings.  –Ann Landers


77. If you want your children to turn out well, spend twice as much time with them, and half as much money. –Abigail Van Buren


78. Build your own dreams, or someone else will hire you to build theirs. –Farrah Gray


79. The battles that count aren’t the ones for gold medals. The struggles within yourself–the invisible battles inside all of us–that’s where it’s at. –Jesse Owens


80. Education costs money.  But then so does ignorance. –Sir Claus Moser


81. I have learned over the years that when one’s mind is made up, this diminishes fear. –Rosa Parks


82. It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop. –Confucius


83. If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough. –Oprah Winfrey


84. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. –Dalai Lama


85. You can’t use up creativity.  The more you use, the more you have. –Maya Angelou


86. Dream big and dare to fail. –Norman Vaughan


87. Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. –Martin Luther King Jr.


88. Do what you can, where you are, with what you have. –Teddy Roosevelt


89. If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten. –Tony Robbins


90. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning. –Gloria Steinem


91. It’s your place in the world; it’s your life. Go on and do all you can with it, and make it the life you want to live. –Mae Jemison


92. You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don’t try. –Beverly Sills


93. Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. –Eleanor Roosevelt


94. Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be. –Grandma Moses


95. The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. –Ayn Rand


96. When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it. –Henry Ford


97. It’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years. –Abraham Lincoln


98. Change your thoughts and you change your world. –Norman Vincent Peale


99. Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing. –Benjamin Franklin


100. Nothing is impossible, the word itself says, “I’m possible!” –Audrey Hepburn


101. The only way to do great work is to love what you do. –Steve Jobs


102. If you can dream it, you can achieve it. –Zig Ziglar


Source : Forbes.com

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Leaving an impression

Leaving an impression on others is something that is not so easy to do, in a global society where most would like to make as big of an impression as possible. If you want to impress others, you mostly likely have to “hustle, crush it, and go big”. However, the specifics of how to do this in various ways are not so obvious, and so they are described in this 25-item list. Use of each example will leave the person or people you are dealing with thinking about you in a better light.

1. Stay Focused When Others Take It Easy
This one is easy to notice. There are times when most of the folks in a group start to take it easy. The few who don’t are easily picked out of the bunch. It is in your best interests to get a feel for when those around you are becoming relaxed or comfortable, as that is your chance to jump out like a dancer getting onto the stage. Taking it easy is easy. This is why it is not worth much in the eyes of others. Real focus takes energy, and can be improved upon. If you want to impress, you can’t let up as quickly as others. Although this is partially competition-based, it is more about ushing a little bit against your limits, as we all are similar in this aspect.

2. Underpromise And Overdeliver
How do you do this? You keep yourself from telling 20 people you are going to do things for them, ending up only doing the things for 5 of them, and instead tell 5 people you will do things for them, and do them a little better than you described. This way, you have a higher percentage of folks believing in your reliability. In this post by Bud, he mentioned how Glen said that he was “so unreliable” when he didn’t come through on his plans for him. This is something to keep in mind. When you limit how many things you are doing for/with other folks, you can do each one better than you said you would, providing a welcome surprise for the other person.

3. Lead By Example And Not By Words
Here is a solid way to get people looking at you and what you do. Let’s say I am talking about waking up early on a regular basis. This discussion has much more weight if I am actually waking up early on a regular basis. When you say one thing is good, but don’t do it, some folks think you may be manipulating them, even if you didn’t actually say you do it. This wouldn’t be the case if manipulation wasn’t prevalent, but since it is, you have a bigger opportunity to impress others by leading the way through your actions. It is like there is an open field of room for those few who perform actions, and then a huge cubicle for those who only use words to battle inside of. The open field is much more appealing.

4. Plan Out The Details Of An Event
There is no one out there that doesn’t like it when you plan for an event. Whether this involves setting the time of the event, or getting gas before a long trip, or picking the restaurant to meet at, this is your chance to impress everyone. When the event is over, everyone will remember that you set it up, and planned out its components, before it was even certain it would occur. Even if there is someone else who has their own idea of what the plans should be, it is not like they are going to be disappointed in you for having your own. Most likely, they will want to merge theirs with yours in some way, because your effort will have impressed them, and they won’t want to negate the thought you have put in.

5. Initiate Contact First
            Everyone likes to hear from others. Even the folks who act like they are annoyed when hearing from others actually enjoy shrugging them off or rejecting them. When you are looking to talk to someone, being the first to initiate the conversation impresses them, as they can see that you weren’t afraid of coming off as foolish, and valued their communication as well. Just as a girl is likely to not feel as attractive if the boy she likes doesn’t make an effort to ask her out, people are likely to feel less valuable or relevant when less individuals are initiating contact or conversation with them. You really can’t lose when you initiate contact first, because you then have control of the conversation, and control means that there is no way you can get hurt in the process. This builds your self-esteem, and the person you contact will remember that you made the effort to talk to them. Even with use of technology to contact others, it still depends on taking that initial decision-based risk.

6. Don’t Lose Your Coolness In Tense Situations
            This one is a huge opportunity. When there is a tense situation, or argument of some type, whether you are directly involved or situated as a bystander, keeping your cool lets everyone know you are very strong in mind. It is very easy to lose your cool in a tough or argumentative situation. Usually, when something is very easy, it is not impressive in any shape or form. The word “impressive” is much more associated with the word “hard” than the word “easy”. What you do in a tense situation says a lot about your limits. People take note of how far the pressure or social discomfort around you goes until you lose your control of yourself and the situation. President Obama had a joke in his speech at the White House Correspondent’s Dinner where he said “In the next 100 days, I will strongly consider losing my cool”. Keeping your cool in good and bad times lets people you know you have a mind of steel.

7. Buy Expensive Things
            This is one of the most costly ways to impress others, and it is very temporary. If you spend a lot of money on some certain items that are in demand, like jewelry, or a flashy car, or so on, you can impress certain people for a short period of time. This is a very expensive way to impress others though, and will also create some folks who are unimpressed by your attempt to impress them. A new car model is only the latest model for one year.

8. Come Slightly early To a Gathering
            When you come on time, or early, to a gathering, you are showing that you take the other person/ people and their time seriously. This will remain notable in their minds, as they will know you thought of them during the time you were getting ready to arrive early. Going late shows more of a concern for not looking bad, as opposed to concern for the other involved. It impresses others to know that you have your life in order enough to be where you say you will be at the time when you say you will be. This is not a small thing, as people rise to greatness based on simple things (which are harder than they seem) like being on time to gatherings and functions. You can get labeled as “professional” just based on this alone, and the person labeling you would be accurate as well. Just as the first result in a Google search gets the highest percentage of click- through, the earliest folks at a gathering are usually the most concerned and influential (aside from any of that ‘fashionably late’ garbage).

9. Bring Things That Others Might Need
            An example of this would be bringing bottles of water for others you are going hiking with. They might bring their own, but that is one way to do this. You could also bring fruits or nuts for the group. If you’re going to a couple of places in a new county with someone, you could bring along a couple of printed maps of the area so you don’t get lost. Thinking ahead to provide for things that others might end up wanting will make them feel much more welcome and fitting. It shows that you are glad they came, and can fulfill a need or desire they have. They will know that you rise to a higher standard of mutual consideration.

10. Stay Consistent in a Skill/Activity of Yours
            This one is a continually impressive item. If you have a skill, and stay consistent in using it, this will grow more and more. If you are great at computer networking, and continually work at building up your computer networking experience and knowledge, there are people who will be impressed more and more by your consistency. The same is true of if you have some habit like running every night at 7 PM. If you keep this habit up for weeks or months, people will start to take notice of your strength in maintaining it. They will know that as your “running time”, and keep that time in mind to either leave you alone or attempt to join you, out of respect for your regularity.

11. Be The One Who Does The Busy-Work
            Sometimes there are little odd and ends to do like taking garlic out of cloves, or looking up a concept on Wikipedia or Google, or watering some fruit plants. Doing these things shows others that you’re not too big in your own mind to do them. When you are already handling the big things, and are not against doing the small things, others will know you’ve got the whole package.

12. Present Yourself In A Way You Haven’t Before
            If you always present yourself to others in a serious way, and they are used to that by now, it would make a statement for you to try to start casually the next time you are with others, and maintain that during the rest of your conversation. This would show them that you are not limited to a certain tone. While we generally present a personality that we gravitate towards, there is no reason we can’t act in a different way. Others will be interested because acting a different way keeps us out of being in a routine box.

13. Send A Letter Instead Of An E-mail
            This is not to say that sending someone an e-mail can’t have an impact, but since this is about impressing others, sending an actual letter would be a bit more fitting. This only works for those people that you have the mailing address of, but if that is the case, it would be a real welcome surprise for them to receive a personal letter in the mail. It is pretty uncommon for most folks. You can probably remember the last personal letter you got in the mail, even if it was a year ago that you picked it up from the mailbox. You can provide that same good feeling to someone else, and they will not forget you.

14. Beat One of Your Past Records
            If it can work for Olympians to impress people when they beat their own personal records, it can work for you as well. Beating your past mile running time, or amount of books read per month, or days in a row eating healthy food will be impressive to anyone you let know about it as it occurs. People like to hear about winning streaks, so when you beat your previous record in some category, let them know, and they will know you are moving upward.

15. Put yourself in the Other Person’s Mind
            There could be a lot more empathy in our society. When you show it, you instantly get a +1 from the person you are talking with, because you put the effort in to feel how they feel. Instead of looking at them like some other creature, putting in the thought to understand their position, and looking to get along with them better, makes a big difference. Others are not that different from us. The few who realize this, and make an effort to see why any social problems are occurring, are the few who build a continually larger group of people who are on their team.

16. Expand Your Knowledge and Experience
            Years of experience in some skill or ability, and years of education in some category, are what are usually seen as factors of importance. A person who has 5 years of experience in a certain function or duty is usually impressive to those who have less experience, and also to those who are not even in the same category of utility. The number of years alone can be enough to cause others to take notice. This item takes a long while longer to make an impression on others, but it is always worth it. It might not provide returns in one year, or in two years, but at some point down the road, you will have an increased socio-economic profile, known to be related to improved health and well-being.

17. Give Something Without Expecting Anything In Return
            This is powerful because it confuses or stays in the mind of most folks. When you do something for someone, and don’t indicate that you expect something back, they usually wonder what is going on. We are so used to exchanges that one- sided provisions catch us off guard. There is plenty of opportunity for this. Find someone you can do something for, and do that thing for them, and leave it at that. This is harder than it sounds, because the mind starts thinking of what it will receive, but if that end of the thought process is quieted, you can have a substantial impact, and maybe lead to a cycle of giving, which runs more smoothly than any other type, as long as it keeps going.

18. Point out Something Personal about Yourself
            When you point out something personal, you are showing some amount of trust in your listener. You are trusting them to not attack you based on the information, right after you say it, or at a later time when you are not there. It says that you value them enough to let them in on some information that can make you vulnerable. This will get the attention of your listener, as they most likely will not want to let you down in some way. It is almost an indirect compliment to let someone know something personal about you, and very few people would respond to a compliment with some plan to use it against you.

19. Do A Regular Thing In A Different Way
            This could range from tying your shoes some certain way, creating music with a wacky type of background melody, adding cooked toppings like onion, garlic, and tarragon to your spaghetti, saying a different greeting to people than your normally do, or so on. Any of these things will be interesting to those you deal with. Novelty-seeking is something we always praise when we see it in another person, and look to have it in ourselves. We always compliment folks who travel more, and who try out new activities, because they are opening their minds up in the process. You can do the same with things you already do.

20. Have A Great Trait/Skill And Be Modest About It
            This one is sure to impress, as people who have certain skills are often too glad to point them out repeatedly. While that is not so bad, being modest about a special skill or two that you have can get others thinking that you are on a different level than most people. It makes it look as though your skill is not a big deal to you, which has more impact than trying to show it off to others. If you are good at reading comprehension, and regularly remember and pick up on details from books that most would forget, but don’t point this out when questioned about it, some will start to think much more highly of your intelligence. On the other hand, if you brag about your reading skills, you’ll probably just get ignored.

21. Introduce One Person To Another
            Bringing two people you know together is something that probably only you can do for those two specific people. They might not know each other, but they both know you, and so you are the common thread who has an opportunity. When you introduce one person to another, they will both see you in a new light. They will see that you were thinking of each of them. This makes people a bit more personal with you. They see another person you associate with, and see that you are not hiding your relationship with them. This can only strengthen your reputation. Also, the more you show of yourself and your relationships, the less potential you have for future regret.

22. Give A Person A Gift That Is Specific To Them
            During times like birthdays and holidays, there is the act of gift-giving that can be in place. When you are getting someone a gift, it makes a real impression for them when it is specific for them. Getting a person a random bestselling book is alright, but getting them an economics book that is likely to expand upon their current interest of economics goes a big step further. Just as we have certain gifts we would want more than others, the same is true for them as well, and so taking this into account can lead you to provide some great gifts that show more guided purchasing and thought.

23. Say The Thing Everyone Else Is Thinking
            When you are in a group of some sort, there are usually items that most of the people in the group are thinking, but that no one says, out of fear, or worry of offending someone, or so on. The fear and worry is usually preventing helpful items from being said. If you take the risk, and say those things others are holding back from, you will build self-esteem, and will also notice that everyone is glad that you said them. I haven’t seen one example of where I said something that I felt everyone in a group was thinking that led to a bad result. We are very connected to each other in various ways, the most important of which is our thoughts.

24. Don’t Try To Impress Anyone
            Most of what we do works in opposites. When we don’t try to attract someone, they tend to become more attracted to us. When we are the quiet person in a room, people indirectly hear us louder than the loud person in the room. The person who makes a class look the easiest is the one who studies alone the hardest. Along with these is the idea that if you don’t try to impress others, you will actually impress them more. People partially expect for others to try to impress them. We get used to folks exaggerating details in their stories to get more of a reaction, and the news doing the same with current events. Therefore, if you don’t exaggerate, and stick to presenting yourself as you are, people who matter will be even more impressed.

25. Run A Site Like DragosRoua.com
            If you don’t understand this one, you haven’t been paying attention. DragosRoua.com is growing by leaps and bounds due to the owner and writer of this site, John Michaels. I’m just kidding there. It turns out that Dragos Roua is running, and writing for, DragosRoua.com. From the continual effort put out, to the warmth he presents, the package here is an impressive one. What Do You Think? These are many ways that came to my mind of how to impress others, or make a lasting impact in their thoughts. Do any of these examples bring up a personal example to your mind? Can you think of any other ways to leave an impression on others? Let us know in the comments.

Source: www.wikihow.com

Monday, June 10, 2013

Stresses and Its Management

***Life Changing Post***

Stresses and Its Management

A psychologist walked around a room while
teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water,
everyone expected they'd be asked the "half empty or half full" question. Instead, with a
smile on her face, she inquired: "How heavy is this glass of water?"

Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20
oz.

She replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it's not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn't change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes."

She continued, "The stresses and worries in
life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens.
Think about them a bit longer and they
begin to hurt. And if you think about them
all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything."

It's important to remember to let go of your stresses.
As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down.
Don't carry
them through the evening and into the night.
Remember to put the glass down!

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